{"id":10259,"date":"2024-12-13T04:17:16","date_gmt":"2024-12-13T09:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cafe.nfshost.com\/?p=10259"},"modified":"2024-12-13T04:17:16","modified_gmt":"2024-12-13T09:17:16","slug":"were-losing-the-right-to-offend-and-that-should-frighten-us-alla-press-watchdog-ruling-says-journalists-cannot-call-a-trans-woman-a-man-who-claims-to-be-a-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cafe.nfshost.com\/?p=10259","title":{"rendered":"We\u2019re losing the right to offend \u2013 and that should frighten us allA press watchdog ruling says journalists cannot call a trans woman \u2018a man who claims to be a woman\u2019 \u2013 so what should we call her?We\u2019re losing the right to offend \u2013 and that should frighten us allA press watchdog ruling says journalists cannot call a trans woman \u2018a man who claims to be a woman\u2019 \u2013 so what should we call her?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/cm\/AGPWSu-z7KC6WWT1lwBdJnNRQnhOuoKqo509nCGhpK6GshoChNPz1mfEGBSxp3JcqIjHBbUY9g=s40-p\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td>robert henderson<\/td><td>12:06\u202fAM (1 hour ago)<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><\/td><td rowspan=\"2\"><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td colspan=\"3\">to <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mail.google.com\/mail\/u\/0\/images\/cleardot.gif\" alt=\"\"><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/were-losing-the-right-to-offend-and-that-should-frighten-us\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/were-losing-the-right-to-offend-and-that-should-frighten-us\/<\/a>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/m\/mf-mj\/michael-deacon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">M<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/m\/mf-mj\/michael-deacon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ichael Deacon<\/a><\/li><\/ul>We\u2019re losing the right to offend \u2013 and that should frighten us allA press watchdog ruling says journalists cannot call a trans woman \u2018a man who claims to be a woman\u2019 \u2013 so what should we call her?<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NarE0AdU-t2q6oTJslpDFaA1Ar9mA57H6VSztJppLU4a7c580bDFW6-DbN2T24k9nnt5Clc699IzFF8r04dX4asuKsnHr66JERaZt3s5CrWCpq0qzGE686M90GC0ENp4I_AQUFNers6w1tXhoKjQ8ucFUEOt-Qt3aU6tIYFMN-GtK7DH-TFurOQcx8Tr86jh0FZzvF66p-SdU0G7QovmZQZLjqEvMpX0XHYvDSzgfbpq-N_I6fEwJtOZh5q0jt1bB1UhuTO=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/TELEMMGLPICT000289060664_17339343041040_trans_NvBQzQNjv4BqipDOC0SYvIS0P1F3nifngwPGNVQdY1lTaFyk8lwQ3DU.jpeg?imwidth=680\" alt=\"Juno Dawson at the Women of the World arts and science festival at the South Bank, London, in 2022\"><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Ipso upheld a claim by trans woman Juno Dawson against The Spectator calling it \u2018personally belittling and demeaning toward the complainant\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/m\/mf-mj\/michael-deacon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Michael Deacon<\/a>Columnist &amp; Assistant Editor11 December 2024 6:01pm GMT<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NbJeNSC4wpr15V5yzUv2MW4kHw-2pMLccT0vPVWSjtdxeHATUrzC2565NAyN_xHtjGX-bSZv6k1-NNfLxWHME4U4xhDkUcBMrWnJTjbmySfVHQTBoEx1Knad0HHHpyAy-fYnWVh5exlANlmLtDf_bAi0JySQaQ2jCc-J_AyFsbIIDM=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/Author%20photos\/Michael%20Deacon%20Aug%202021-xlarge.png?imwidth=100\" alt=\"Michael Deacon\">The job of a journalist, we used to think, is always to tell the truth, whether people like it or not. It seems, however, that times have changed. Because nowadays, the job of a journalist is to avoid telling the truth, in case it hurts someone\u2019s feelings.Or so I infer from this week\u2019s extraordinary judgment by Ipso, the press watchdog.In an article for&nbsp;<em>The Spectator<\/em>&nbsp;about Nicola Sturgeon, published in May, the writer Gareth Roberts briefly referred to the time Ms Sturgeon was interviewed by Juno Dawson, a trans woman \u2013 or, as Mr Roberts put it, \u201ca man who claims to be a woman\u201d. Dawson complained to Ipso. And this week it decided that&nbsp;<em>The Spectator<\/em>&nbsp;had&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/opinion\/2024\/12\/11\/ipso-has-misstepped-transgender-spectator-sturgeon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">breached the Editor\u2019s Code of Practice<\/a>&nbsp;\u2013 and forced the magazine to publish the ruling on its website.As Dawson is biologically male, you may feel that Mr Roberts\u2019 phrase is hard to dispute. And, as it happens, Ipso did not uphold Dawson\u2019s complaint of inaccuracy. The reason it found against&nbsp;<em>The Spectator<\/em>&nbsp;was that, in Ipso\u2019s words, the phrase was \u201cpersonally belittling and demeaning toward the complainant, in a way that was both pejorative and prejudicial to her gender identity\u201d.In other words: it was accurate. But it hurt the subject\u2019s feelings. So you shouldn\u2019t have said it.<em>The Spectator<\/em>\u2019s new editor, Michael Gove,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/10\/press-watchdog-accused-of-chilling-effect-free-speech\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">calls the ruling \u201coutrageous\u201d<\/a>. And he\u2019s absolutely right. Using the phrase \u201ca man who claims to be a woman\u201d may upset trans activists, but that doesn\u2019t mean journalists should be punished for saying it. After all, saying \u201cfairies aren\u2019t real\u201d may upset a child. But that doesn\u2019t mean newspapers should be forced to pretend they are real, and publish solemn reports of the latest magical happenings in the fairy realm.Nonetheless, Ipso has spoken. So now, to avoid the same fate, journalists will be wondering what to write instead of \u201cman who claims to be a woman\u201d. Perhaps: \u201cMan who is in possession of a piece of paper issued under the terms of the Gender Recognition Act 2004, stating that, despite appearances to the contrary, he is actually a woman, and you\u2019d better agree or keep your trap shut\u201d?Whatever the answer, we need to face the most uncomfortable truth of all. Which is that it isn\u2019t just journalists whose free speech is under threat; it\u2019s everyone\u2019s. Because the fact is,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/jk-rowling-trans-spectator-gender-critical-michael-gove\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">we\u2019re losing the right to offend<\/a>&nbsp;\u2013 and that should frighten us all.Think of the undergraduate in Leeds, recently&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/09\/student-suspended-gender-critical-views\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">suspended from hosting her student radio show<\/a>&nbsp;after posting a gender-critical blog. Or the 17-year-old female footballer, suspended for six matches last month after asking a trans opponent: \u201cAre you a man?\u201d Or the Newcastle United fan banned from attending matches after posting gender-critical views on social media.It\u2019s not all about gender, either. Think of the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2023\/10\/08\/teacher-lose-career-for-sharing-christian-values-re-lesson\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Christian teacher sacked<\/a>&nbsp;last year after saying he believes marriage is between a man and a woman. And remember how, in September, an Oxford don lamented that today\u2019s undergraduates are too \u201cfrightened\u201d to speak their minds in seminars, for fear they\u2019ll be cancelled for causing offence.In fact, that\u2019s the key word here: \u201cfear\u201d. Journalists have editors to fight their corner. But members of the public don\u2019t. So, when they read about the trouble you can get in these days for saying the \u201cwrong\u201d thing, they may decide it\u2019s safer not to express an opinion at all. They don\u2019t want the police to come knocking on their door, like they did with Allison Pearson\u2026Such fear, though, spells disaster for society. Because, when it comes to speech, offence is the price of freedom.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/crazed-zealots-free-speech-under-threat-in-britain\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sinister zealots are putting free speech under threat in Britain as never before<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/a\/ak-ao\/allister-heath\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Allister Heath<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sinister zealots are putting free speech under threat in Britain as never before<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>The press regulator must not allow itself to be used to stymie the expression of legitimate opinion<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NZ-ospCui3pVenCMw7Kz38W2UWxMmJ9aieRY6GgPIlvGOqwzBxtZOy4jy1bLVzEB41F2pHydJCt0RhmEE3_CkSppJril41DrUGSnzGksXXlFEEA0VHvSowUeFo5RY4eSiKjcep_VsDtQrTUyM_sESe0h--xmGVkPicvVa3DAhQJur5QpMthk9FXDJlHycwxPO4zYYpBkFtsOpCTLGPu4_6YIJkbYqMoECCTQdEsHmskqpJrfl-kzsQ9B1O6hDfkg0LmLzLG=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/TELEMMGLPICT000395457164_17339484754380_trans_NvBQzQNjv4BqDKGDQpemwFDOZcDYGh2bvnwSCF1R0VweJ7DS2UnVMSQ.jpeg?imwidth=680\" alt=\"Michael Gove\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Standing up for free speech: Michael Gove, The Spectator\u2019s new editor, has lambasted Ipso\u2019s absurd ruling this week against the magazine&nbsp;Credit: Lucy North\/PA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/a\/ak-ao\/allister-heath\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Allister Heath<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>11 December 2024 7:24pm GMT<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NbB-ShdkcPBV1yueriZ0UitINvf3Z3h5P526nFAHMh6dZEX2TEoWq8K6hhVWR3E6c0QwXa7pEy4-0b1lmlCE4vgQXOf-nxTPpyU9Ym6ryEdxtmTCVvZYCww4qc2oXXDFfgCykuCYPOmDc0KnFVnxLm6ouXP3Ib8p1XTJm7xsdIl43w=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/Author%20photos\/Allister%20Heath%20Aug%202021-xlarge.png?imwidth=100\" alt=\"Allister Heath\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What has happened to our country, once the freest in Europe? Why did we&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/opinion\/2024\/12\/11\/ipso-has-misstepped-transgender-spectator-sturgeon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">cease to be the home of open debate<\/a>, civilised disagreement and liberalism at its best? When did we sign away our right to free speech, our freedom to tell it as it is, to expose cant and lies and hypocrisy, to disagree with the powerful, fashionable and sanctimonious?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How did it come to pass that a nation that always refused to be told what to do, that still cannot even tolerate ID cards, ended up acquiescing so meekly to the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/were-losing-the-right-to-offend-and-that-should-frighten-us\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">demise of free expression<\/a>? The world is watching our descent into soft authoritarianism with great sadness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unimpeded speech is the foundational freedom without which no other can survive, a prerequisite for any democratic polity. Frederick Douglass, the great American abolitionist, put it beautifully in 1860. \u201cLiberty is meaningless where the right to utter one\u2019s thoughts and opinions has ceased to exist,\u201d he said. \u201cThat, of all rights, is the dread of tyrants. It is the right which they first of all strike down. They know its power.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those in today\u2019s world who seek to exercise power over us \u2013 the woke mob, \u201chuman rights\u201d lawyers, pressure groups, bureaucrats, politicians, regulators, big tech companies, HR departments, the post-liberal intelligentsia, the know-it-alls, the propagandists \u2013 are fully aware that free speech is their very own kryptonite. They dread scrutiny, and fear being held to account.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their strategy to combat open and fearless expression can vary. Speech can be regulated or constrained by laws, directives or official guidance, as with ever-expanding privacy case law or \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/politics\/2024\/11\/26\/abolish-recording-non-crime-hate-incidents-former-judge\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">non-crime hate incidents<\/a>\u201d; bullying, shunning and cancelling dissidents can also work well, forging a toxic culture of self-censorship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no better way to stamp out dissent than to cite a \u201cspeech code\u201d, or claim that \u201cthe science\u201d isn\u2019t being followed, or to dismiss somebody\u2019s opinion as a \u201cconspiracy theory\u201d (even when it is not) or to warn that somebody\u2019s feelings are being hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Several of the greatest global scandals of recent years could have been avoided had speech been freer. In Britain and Europe, cancel culture was deployed against anybody who questioned the scale and impact of mass migration, with sceptics smeared as racists. The Hunter Biden scandal was covered up, including by Facebook, which censored a&nbsp;<em>New York Post<\/em>&nbsp;story ahead of the 2020 elections. It became impossible to discuss the likelihood that Covid originated from an accidental lab leak in Wuhan; posts or articles would be removed from social media or search engines, and authors hounded as xenophobes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet while the Americans are fighting back, the situation in Britain keeps getting worse. Allison Pearson, my&nbsp;<em>Telegraph<\/em>&nbsp;colleague, was&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/allison-pearson-essex-police-investigation-harrington-chief\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">persecuted by the police over a tweet<\/a>. Floyd Mayweather, the boxing legend, was harassed while shopping in London, apparently because of his laudable pro-Israel, anti-Hamas views.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The newspaper industry\u2019s regulator has joined in too. Earlier this year,&nbsp;<em>The Spectator&nbsp;<\/em>published a piece about an interview Nicola Sturgeon gave at a literary festival. Gareth Roberts, the author,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/10\/press-watchdog-accused-of-chilling-effect-free-speech\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">wrote that the former Scottish first minister<\/a>&nbsp;and advocate of gender self-ID \u201cwas interviewed by writer Juno Dawson, a man who claims to be a woman, and so the conversation naturally turned to gender\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dawson complained to the Independent Press Standards Organisation (Ipso), the regulator which also oversees&nbsp;<em>The Telegraph<\/em>. Ipso ruled that while the piece was accurate and did not constitute harassment, it breached section 12.1 of the Editor\u2019s Code, which states: \u201cThe press must avoid prejudicial or pejorative reference to an individual\u2019s race, colour, religion, sex, gender identity, sexual orientation or to any physical or mental illness or disability.\u201d Ipso ruled that the reference to Dawson\u2019s gender identity was pejorative and prejudicial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a deeply disappointing judgment by a regulator that appears to hold an overly expansive view of its own remit. It dismissed the author\u2019s, and the publication\u2019s, right to free speech and ability to state a view that I suspect the majority of the population would agree with. Ipso, which was set up as an alternative to effective state regulation, has strayed into the realm of taste and politics: it is imposing its views on the press, rather than making sure that facts and accuracy are maintained. Its claims to \u201cuphold high editorial standards to protect the public and freedom of expression\u201d ring hollow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At a time when extreme gender activism is in retreat, the press\u2019s own regulator has, however inadvertently, done the zealots\u2019 work for them, forcing journalists to follow the diktats of an unpopular ideology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I stand in solidarity with Michael Gove,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/09\/25\/michael-gove-appointed-editor-spectator\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Spectator\u2019s<\/em>&nbsp;editor<\/a>, and his predecessor, Fraser Nelson, who published the piece. Gove is right to defend his magazine\u2019s right to free expression, protesting that \u201cDawson may have a Gender Recognition Certificate but no piece of paper, whatever it may say, can alter biological reality. Parliament may pass laws, but they cannot abolish Dawson\u2019s Y chromosome.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a world where posts on X, Elon Musk\u2019s pro-free speech successor to Twitter, can get millions of views in minutes, newspapers and magazines cannot compete if they are banned from stating certain facts or expressing popular but non-woke opinions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other decisions by Ipso have constrained the freedom of the press. An adjudication against Jeremy Clarkson in&nbsp;<em>The Sun<\/em>&nbsp;in 2022 \u2013 following complaints by pressure groups \u2013 overstepped the mark, restricting the freedom of columnists to be offensive and silly if they (and their editor) feel like it. Ipso has undermined open justice by ruling against&nbsp;<em>Aberdeen Live<\/em>&nbsp;in a court reporting case, weaponising Clause 4 of the Editor\u2019s Code (which deals with intrusion into grief and shock) to introduce its own value judgments and interfering in editorial decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In an age where there is collapsing trust in all institutions, it is madness to prevent journalists from reporting all of the facts, or to make it too risky for columnists to tackle difficult subjects. Consigning free speech to a few US-based online platforms will further hollow out the British media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enough is enough: America is rediscovering&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/freedom-of-speech\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">free speech<\/a>, so why can\u2019t we? We need to be able to express ourselves freely, limited only by common sense and the normal constraints of the law. If the current political establishment cannot give us back our liberty, we will elect a new one that can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttps:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/cousin-marriage-like-women-having-child-over-34-nhs-trust\/\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">NHS trust compares cousin marriage to white women having children over 34<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Bradford health chiefs say practice is \u2018cultural\u2019 and no different to \u2018liberts distributed to families in Bradford that cousin marriage accounts for about a third of birth defects.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Education to degree level was found to be a strong protective factor, halving the risk of congenital anomalies irrespective of ethnic origin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\nhttps:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2024\/12\/12\/lee-anderson-right-10-ways-life-harder-men-women\/\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/m\/mf-mj\/michael-deacon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Michael Deacon<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Lee Anderson is right. Here are 10 ways life is harder for men than women<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>We may not all have fought in the Battle of The Somme, but life can be tough for us blokes<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NbzrQLjrdpMr_Jul3udYsmpSuXnyS7J4Vcax7iSootpZCKb1BDwMb_YQA8eV0j9oQNtCp3K30ra8N_n9XDns8q9iRi86hMowywPdYtMvkhSgDnTdngn76jsFyLMOSojuSj1idgJGhpvrwEK1p9X0waWicgKoqZt_XAjmHEUhlg6vaOhr9izRbkHLsMw6QmPxbYrM-21pOjfqXgLL-ZwM5ge5gePxpELoYk5APItM_cZGsrvylv-RKNgz3vWin0sEc4rEbvC=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/news\/2024\/12\/11\/TELEMMGLPICT000400831217_17339341438650_trans_NvBQzQNjv4BqgsaO8O78rhmZrDxTlQBjdLdu0TL-Cg_AMOUqySXmFgU.jpeg?imwidth=680\" alt=\"Lee Anderson\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Anderson has recently called for wider recognition of a man\u2019s plight in having to go through the Battle of the Somme&nbsp;Credit: Maja Smiejkowska<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/authors\/m\/mf-mj\/michael-deacon\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Michael Deacon<\/a>Columnist &amp; Assistant Editor<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>12 December 2024 7:00am GMT<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ci3.googleusercontent.com\/meips\/ADKq_NbJeNSC4wpr15V5yzUv2MW4kHw-2pMLccT0vPVWSjtdxeHATUrzC2565NAyN_xHtjGX-bSZv6k1-NNfLxWHME4U4xhDkUcBMrWnJTjbmySfVHQTBoEx1Knad0HHHpyAy-fYnWVh5exlANlmLtDf_bAi0JySQaQ2jCc-J_AyFsbIIDM=s0-d-e1-ft#https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/content\/dam\/Author%20photos\/Michael%20Deacon%20Aug%202021-xlarge.png?imwidth=100\" alt=\"Michael Deacon\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/lee-anderson\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lee Anderson<\/a>, the hot-tempered&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/reform-uk\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Reform MP<\/a>, has spent the week being the butt of Left-wing online ridicule. Yes, even more than usual. And it\u2019s all because he made one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/social-media\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">social media<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In short: he dared to suggest that, at least sometimes, life is tougher for men than women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It all began when a woman on Twitter asked the following question. \u201cWomen deal with periods, pregnancy and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/menopause\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">menopause<\/a>,\u201d she wrote. \u201cWhat do men have to deal with?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An honest answer might have been, \u201cWomen dealing with periods, pregnancy and menopause.\u201d That, of course, would have landed Mr Anderson in quite enough trouble. His actual reply, however, managed to provoke an even greater uproar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was: \u201cTry the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/battle-of-the-somme\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Battle of the Somme<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously what he meant was: \u201cIn times of war, it tends to be men who get conscripted to fight and die on the front line, not women.\u201d But, social media being what it is, almost everyone has chosen to ignore that, and instead pilloried him for appearing to suggest that fighting on the Somme in 1916 is a universal male experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I for one, however, have some sympathy for Mr Anderson. Because, while I myself may never have fought on the Somme, or indeed in any other military conflict, I do think he\u2019s got a point. Just as women are the only ones who have to endure periods,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/pregnancy\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">pregnancy<\/a>&nbsp;and menopause, there really are problems in life that only us poor men have to endure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And here are 10 of them\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Fat<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, obviously women put on weight too. But at least they tend to do it in a consistent, uniform manner. To put it bluntly: if a woman is fat, she\u2019s fat all over. A man, however, can develop a vast, pendulous beer belly while his arms and legs remain skinny. Which just makes him look ridiculous. Like a frog that\u2019s swallowed a bowling ball.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Eyebrows<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Around the age of 40, if you\u2019re a man, these begin sprouting crazed, wiry tufts, making you resemble a grumpy owl. When hairdressers start asking you if you\u2019d like them trimmed, it\u2019s embarrassing enough. But in due course, something even more embarrassing happens. Hairdressers just trim them automatically, without even stopping to ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Nasal hair<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/charles-darwin\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Charles Darwin<\/a>&nbsp;may have been one of the most influential thinkers in history, but I don\u2019t believe he ever managed to explain the evolutionary purpose of middle-aged men growing a small forest in each of their nostrils. Or, later on, their ears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Silver fox envy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Most women can\u2019t stand it when their hair goes grey, so they dye it. Simple enough. For men, however, the issue is more complicated. Because when men go grey, like&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/george-clooney\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">George Clooney<\/a>, they somehow seem more attractive, elegant, serious. Which leaves those of us who still have our original hair colour feeling somehow less manly \u2013 like a squeaky-voiced 16-year-old boy who hasn\u2019t gone through puberty. Perhaps we should do the opposite of women, and dye it grey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Jawline<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In our youth, strong and square. Yet in middle age, it loses definition, and goes all vague and wobbly like the coast of Norway. Which is of course why, around the age of 40, so many men grow beards. Mentioning no names, Prince Harry. Or William.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Bladder<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In later life, shrivels to the size of a lentil \u2013 leading to weary, bleary-eyed trips to the loo at 2am. We might as well sleep in the bathroom, to save wearing out our slippers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Snoring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>All right, so our wives will argue that they\u2019re the real victims here. But we suffer too. Obstructive&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/health-fitness\/wellbeing\/sleep\/sleep-apnea-what-is-it-symptoms-causes-treatment\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">sleep apnoea<\/a>&nbsp;\u2013 around three times more common in men than women \u2013 can leave us at risk of high blood pressure, heart conditions and stroke. At the very least, we wake up feeling as if we\u2019ve spent the whole night gargling a Brillo pad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Clothes shopping<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The bosses of high-street clothing chains have eyes only for women. Hence the vast and varied arrays of stylish outfits on offer to them. Men, by contrast, are treated as a dreary, dowdy afterthought. Which is why the men\u2019s sections of such chains are so paltry, and invariably resemble a jumble sale held by the gild of retired&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/tv\/0\/how-britain-fell-out-of-love-with-blue-peter\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Blue Peter<\/a>&nbsp;presenters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Life expectancy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if we aren\u2019t forced to fight on the Somme, we die younger than women do. Then again, not every man may see this as a bad thing. To quote the comedian Simon Munnery: \u201cWhy do men die before their wives? Could it be because they want to?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Stiff upper lip<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, I could have made some slightly more serious points here. Compared to women, men have vastly higher rates of alcoholism, drug addiction, homelessness and suicide. The problem, however, is that complaining about how hard it is to be a man is considered unmanly. 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